ContractingOutAgreement

Death, property and prenups

The Rimmer case has changed the rules – for the meantime

Many couples now sign agreements ‘contracting out’ of the Property (Relationships) Act 1976. These contracting out agreements are commonly known as ‘prenups.’

Even though some prenups contain clauses that say couples must review the agreement every five years, or when a significant event happens (such as the birth of a child), they are almost never reviewed.

 

Early relationship prenups

What usually happens is that at the start of their relationship, a couple decide to buy a house together. They want to protect their respective deposits. They may have children from prior relationships to whom they want to leave their ‘share.’ They buy a house as tenants in common and sign new wills. They also sign a prenup stating:

  • Their shares in the house are their respective separate property
  • They may give each other a right to occupy their share of the home for, say, two years after their death, and
  • They intend leaving their separate property to their respective children.

What typically happens next is that the prenup and the wills are put into the bottom drawer and forgotten about. The couple may get married (which automatically revokes their wills), and/or they sell their first house and buy a new property that better suits their needs.

They often buy the new house as joint tenants as, after a lengthy relationship, they want to ensure their spouse inherits the home and cannot get kicked out by their late spouse’s children. When they die, their property lawyer would give them the standard advice that property that is owned jointly passes automatically by survivorship and does not form part of your estate.

 

Dying

When one spouse dies, leaving a mix of property in their personal and joint names, what happened next used to look like this:

  1. Transmitting all jointly owned property (the house, the joint bank account, etc) into the sole name of the survivor
  2. Identifying any property in the deceased’s sole name, and
  3. If the deceased had a will, distributing in accordance with that, or If the deceased died without a will (intestate), distributing in accordance with the Administration Act.[1]

 

What happens now?

This long-standing estate administration process has recently been upended by the Rimmer decision in the Court of Appeal.[2] This decision made two statements that have changed the way lawyers think about prenups:

  1. It is the prenup (not the will, property law or the intestacy rules) that governs what part of the relationship property forms part of the deceased spouse or partner’s estate,[3] and
  2. A prenup will always be given effect to (unless successfully challenged) on the death of spouse or partner.[4]

This has now changed the process to:

  1. Finding out whether there is a prenup, and, if there is
  2. Dealing with all the property specified in the prenup as set out in the prenup
  3. If there is property NOT covered by the prenup, the survivor can either:– Apply for division of the relationship property that is not covered, or
    – Receive their gifts under the will if there is one, or under the intestacy rules if there is not.

 

How is this different?

The rules of property law ordinarily decide what falls into an estate following someone’s death. That is, if they own an asset in their sole name (such as an identifiable share in a home, or a bank account in their sole name), that will form part of their estate. However, if they own property jointly with someone else, that will pass automatically to the surviving owner(s).

In saying that ‘the division instead proceeds in accordance with the s 21 agreement,’ Rimmer appears to be suggesting that property owned solely in the name of the deceased could nevertheless be transferred to the survivor if it is defined in the prenup as relationship property (particularly if the prenup specifies how relationship property is to be divided in the event of death).

That is a huge departure from the current rules, which state that, when someone dies, their executors (if they have a will) or administrators (if they die without a will) have a strict duty to distribute their property either in terms of the will or the intestacy rules.

If their spouse or partner disagrees with those rules, they can elect to file an application in the Family Court; whatever the court then decides takes precedence over the will or intestacy rules. Rimmer seems to suggest that the executors/administrators can circumvent the rules!

 

What next?

Now as a result of Rimmer, the first thing we as lawyers need to do is find out if there is a prenup – even if it is 30 years old!

Instead of just working out what passed by survivorship (with everything else going to the estate), we now must establish how a potentially outdated prenup applies to the property owned by the deceased many years later.

The Court of Appeal decision in Rimmer, may not be the last word, as the Supreme Court has granted leave to appeal, so it may be that the rules change again.

For now, however, make sure if you have a prenup, that both your prenup and your will agree on what should happen to your property when you die.

If you think you have a prenup and you haven’t reviewed it in more than five years, now is the time to do so!

[1] Section 77 of the Administration Act 1969.

[2] Rimmer v Wilton [2025] NZCA 374.

[3] Para [40].

[4] Para [39].

 

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It had been eight long months since Sally separated from Luke, and things were looking up. She and Luke had amicably split, agreed on the division of relationship property, and settled child support issues. These were a weight off her shoulders, but single life had its challenges.

 

She noticed that she did not see the benefit of bulk grocery purchases or split utilities bills. Sure, child support helped, but things were still tough. She had heard of the “singles tax” but seeing it in action was another thing altogether.

At the recommendation of her colleague, Lucinda, Sally decided to get back into the dating scene. Luke fully supported her in this and even agreed to take the kids during his week so that she could meet with the rather dashing Emilio.

Emilio had a similar background. He was freshly divorced and had four children who split their time between their mother in Spain, and with Emilio in New Zealand.

 

The relationship was going well. So well in fact that Sally decided to approach Emilio about moving in together.

 

“Mi amor”, Emilio began. “I love the idea of moving in with you. I agree that we are ready for that step. However, I want to broach an issue with you. A rather uncomfortable issue”.

 

“What is it, Emilio?” Sally asked.

 

“You see, I have four children of my own. My Estate is more modest since the divorce, but I still have considerable assets. I want to protect my children’s future, and in order to do that, I must protect my assets from any potential claims made by you or your children” Emilio explained.

“Oh, I see” Sally said. “I don’t think that’s a bad idea. I too want to protect what I have. I wouldn’t want to split our collective property five ways between my one child and your four children – that doesn’t seem fair”.

 

The couple agreed that they would go and talk to a lawyer about their estate planning.

 

Their respective lawyers explained that with blended families, there could be overlapping claims under the Family Protection Act. If Emilio and Sally each continued into a de facto relationship, then the presumption of equal sharing would likely apply. At the same time, Emilio and Sally each had a moral responsibility to provide for their children.

 

Emilio and Sally decided to enter into a contracting out agreement, to protect their respective assets. They then agreed to sign their own Wills, which reflected the provision in the contracting out agreement that neither of them would make a claim against the other’s estate.

 

Emilio and Sally could relax into their life together, knowing that they had a succession plan that was tailored to their individual needs, so that they didn’t have to worry about any headaches down the road.

 

Jamie Graham


Bob had been living in his first home for a year when he met Lizzy at the burger bar.

 

They fell in love, and Bob wanted Lizzy to move into his home to live together. Bob had a funny feeling that he should seek legal advice before asking Lizzy to move in with him.

 

Bob went to see his lawyer at Edmonds Judd. “I’d like to talk about getting a pre-nup with my girlfriend”. “Absolutely”, Bob’s lawyer replied, “in New Zealand they are known as a Contracting Out Agreement, and they allow you to contract out of the provisions of the Property (Relationships) Act 1976”.

 

Bob explained that he and Lizzy had only been dating for 6 months, however, Bob was confident that she was the one. He hoped the relationship would go on for a long time, but he was wary of what could happen if their relationship ended in a few years. “Things could get messy, right?”, said Bob. Bob’s lawyer nodded and explained a bit about relationship property law and what would happen if the relationship passes 3 years in duration.

 

The team at Edmonds Judd had assisted Bob with the purchase of his first home, which he funded using an inheritance from his father Steve’s estate. Recognising the importance of protecting his assets, Bob’s lawyer recommended that he enter into a Contracting Out Agreement to safeguard his property from any potential relationship property claims in the future.

 

“But wait”, Bob frowned, “I had a look at that, Relationship Property Act thingy before I came here, and it said that inheritance is separate property, so I don’t need a contracting out agreement.”

 

“Well, that’s true”, his lawyer conceded, “but only so far as the inheritance is kept sufficiently separate from any relationship property. If Lizzy moves into your home and you do not enter into a Contracting Out Agreement, the whole property would be considered relationship property if the relationship passes 3 years in duration and qualifies as a “de facto relationship”. Bob was gobsmacked and decided he would like to proceed with the preparation of a Contracting Out Agreement but first he needed to have a difficult conversation with Lizzy.

 

Fortunately, when he had a chat with Lizzy, it wasn’t a difficult conversation at all. She was on board with entering a Contracting Out Agreement as she owned a property with her sister that she wanted to keep out of the relationship property pool too.

 

They were both comfortable with their decision and instructed their respective lawyers to prepare and negotiate the Contracting Out Agreement, after all, there was no harm in hoping for the best while planning for the worst.

Georgia Ellen